How Do We Create Our Lives? Part 1

How Can I Change My Life?

This post is a follow on from How Do I Create My LifeThis adds more depth of information.

You change or create your life by knowing what you desire, by having a burning desire for its achievement and by deliberate creation, as opposed to creating by default. Creating by default is simply seeing results that are not pleasing and then wonder why and how they got into your life in the first place.

You are not aware you are responsible for them as no one ever told you we are all creators of our own realities and that collectively we are responsible for the negative situations on a global level.

Do We Really Have Bad Luck?                       dice

Some people end up thinking they simply have ‘bad luck’! They either were born that way or they acquired that ‘bad luck’ in life. We usually find plenty of proofs for the things we believe too! This is significant as this is exactly how creation works! We do get what we are believing for on a subconscious level.

The masses create by default because they are not yet aware they are creators of their own lives and that whatever shows up in their lives is as a result of their thought (seeds) over a period of time.

The 2 Phases of Our Mind:

To create what you desire your conscious and subconscious mind must be in agreement. You can consciously desire something, however, if you have a contrary program running at a deeper subconscious level, your conscious desires will not be fulfilled.

Let’s be very clear right here, you will still create, but you will only create your subconscious programs. However, because you are unaware of these programs, you are unaware you are a creator of your own realities of life, how the Universe and Universal Laws work, it is no surprise it looks like we are unlucky!

Your conscious mind controls less than 3% and your subconscious mind controls over 97% of your life. It is easy to see which of the 2 phases of your mind will win. This figure varies according to which teacher you listen to. The top of the iceberg equates the 3% and the part under water equates the 97%. Much more is below the surface than we are aware of!

Your homework…

It is not possible to say everything in one post, I will now refer you to several posts that all deal with aspects of what I desire to take deeper in this post.

See: What Is Energy? Part 1, The Words I Speak!, How Do I Create My Life? & How To Increase Energy. You can always add more posts for greater clarity. For some free foundation material – Your Wish Is Your Command” – Kevin Trudeau

How To Improve Our Creation…

If you bring your program up to date, so to speak, and harmonize both phases of mind then you can have whatever you desire in life, as 100% of your soul’s power will be backing you.

‘In order for your creative system to work it needs at least 70% of your creative energy to be available in the present moment’ – Dr R. Anthony

If you feel that you are ‘stuck’ in life, your map of reality needs updating! It will always need to be changed as we grow and develop. Change is a constant. Achieving this will change our lives in some good ways. Change Is Inevitable!

Updating Your Reality Map: (i.e.changing your subconscious mind blueprint)Gene Lamp

Here are some of the things that you will need to implement in order to update your subconscious mind so it works for you instead of against you.

  • Stop Focusing On What Is Missing From Your Life ~ 1

To create what you desire you must first catch yourself in the moment, as you are focusing on what you do not desire to have, what’s missing from your life, or what you don’t desire to happen. In other words, focusing on the opposite of what you desire.

Then you must shift, in that moment, using the flip switch technique and with affirmations from what is missing in your life, to what you absolutely intend to manifest and create in your life with no doubt, and uncertainty or reasoning against what you desire. Know what you desire and do not budge in your mind!

You must put yourself in a state of accepting and certainty. Be joyful, thankful and happy! Maintaining this state will keep undesired creations at bay. See what you desire in your mind’s eye! Visualize it! Focus on it! Think about it!

  • Stop Thinking About Your Present Circumstances ~ 2

Stop thinking about your present limited circumstances and then Imaginationbelieving this will keep you from having what you desire. You must know that no matter how bad or how difficult things are in the moment, they are only temporary! So they are ALL subject to change! And they will only last as long as you keep your attention on them! Imagine what you desire instead! Do it again and again…

If others are involved in a negative situation, know you cannot force change on anyone as that is not your responsibility. You can share your wisdom with them, but their final decision rest with them. Your task is YOU! See your desired goals!

If you refer back to the first 2 paragraphs above you can remind yourself why this is SO vital.

If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at will change’ – Dr Robert Anthony

  • Stop Thinking About What Has Always Been – The Past ~ 3

This is the same as thinking about your limited present circumstance. When your inner talk focuses on the way things have always been, you will keep doing things the way you have always done.

If you keep doing what you’ve been doing, you will keep getting what you have been getting. The reason is simple, you are using the power of deliberate creation in reverse.

This is… Insanity’! Albert Einstein                mindset

The ego tries to keep us out of the present moment as it has no power or control in the present but only in the past. Now you know why we should control the thoughts in our mind!


These are a few of the things that we must adjust in our subconscious minds, where our blueprint for living is engraved. So that we can stop ‘feeling stuck’ in our lives and not having what we desire.

In reality we cannot be ‘stuck’ as energy is always moving. ‘Feeling stuck’ is an indication that we are making the same mistakes again and again.

We should always gain the benefit from life’s lessons and move forward armed with a little more wisdom for later use.

Please click here for part 2 of How Do We Create Our Lives?

I have given you a mouth full! Re-read, swallow it and then let’s ‘talk’ below! 😉

Thank you for visiting, reading and sharing.

EJ   **

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I am EJ, a resident of the UK who has longed for answers for many years to some of life's most puzzling questions.I am passionate about Self-Awareness and have decided to share some of what I am learning and have learnt with others, so that we can evolve together without so much pain and suffering.I will be sharing how we are creating our own reality, (consciously or unconsciously).I do enjoy reading various materials that give answers to life's challenges, so I can implement them and see changes taking place before my very eyes.My aim is to help others, who like myself only a few years ago, had no idea as to why life seemed to cause us so much pain and suffering.

18 thoughts on “How Do We Create Our Lives? Part 1”

  1. That is some deep stuff. My brain just does not process information very fast. It takes me awhile to make a positive change in my life. You have given me a lot to process and think about. Thanks for the steps to go through. Really well done.

    1. Hello Peter, Thank you for visiting and commenting.
      I do understand about the processing part as I take time to digest things I read or hear too. My retention is good however, once I do get it.

      If this is new to you it could be a little challenging. I have gradually built up over the last few weeks. The earlier materials are simpler and easier to grasp. 😉

      I promised myself I would do my best to help others understand why we are failing in life. So I am gradually taking the pace upwards now.
      If time allows, have a look at or listen to the first MP3 set I recommend in my free resources. It was the teaching that started me down this part and is a good eye opener for anyone new to this kind of understanding/teaching about how life works.

      Much success to you Peter.

  2. I realised a short while ago that I was acting and reacting according to my ‘blueprint’ and that if I didnt want to be that person, or more like, I wanted some bits from my blueprint but not others, I had to change it.. This is what I am doing, but it takes time and I have to work at it to react and change things that I want changing but keeping things that I like about me. Thank you for putting it into words.

    1. Hello Helen, thank you for visiting and sharing. You are aware and consciously making adjustments. That is brilliant! We are all a work in progress and it does take effort, but it’s worth it in the long run.

  3. I did not realize the subconscious was so powerful. Focusing my goals instead of the past would greatly benefit me.
    I always loved the saying “Luck Is What Happens When Preparation Meets Opportunity”

    1. Hello Tony, thanks for your comment. In terms of percentages, the figures vary. The older figure ratio is 90:10%, the more modern ones are anything between 97:3%. I have heard even 99:1%.

      The bottom line, the subconscious mind is EXTREMELY powerful. The more we come to know about it, begin the process of changing its blueprint and work with it as our friend, the better for us and all those around us.

      The preparation, that’s own part, the opportunity, that will be given to us. Great quote! 😉

      Sadly, but only if we are aware.

  4. Yes, it is a great article, you can change the situation or circumstances, it is better off to change and adapted oneself into the society. The subconscious mind is a powerhouse for everyone, make the full use of it to achieve your desired outcome.

  5. Interesting post on some philosophy concepts. Well, to put your entire content into a simpler words:It’s important to always look ahead and anticipate for changes, only then can a change happen. Reviewing the past is not entirely a bad thing lest you know how to reflect on your mistakes and it is also advisable not to always brood on the past which does not serve any practical benefits to your life in the future. Am I right in saying these?

    1. Hello Sim, thank you for visiting and expanding on my post. You are absolutely right.

      Living in anticipation of good things happening in the future – great!
      Living in anticipation of undesired things happening in the future – we call that ‘worrying’ – not good!

      Reviewing the past to enjoy the good in our minds and learn from – great.

      I appreciate you sharing your wisdom Sim.

  6. You blew my mind with the percentages of the conscious & sub-conscious mind percentages. I never knew this. But I agree with you about the positive thinking and keeping the negative, past and bad thoughts out of your way when you are trying to accomplish something today. Would it be safe to say that if you are thinking negatively the sub-conscious will constantly pump a defeated mindset on you that will really mess your goals up pretty bad?

    1. Hello Ronnie, thank you for reading, sharing and asking a question.

      Thinking negatively will result in your subconscious mind and Universal Laws giving you more of the same, as whatever we focus on will expand. The end result, we move further away from what we say we consciously desire to have because we are in fact saying the very opposite subconsciously. The subconscious carries the power to get things done!

      We will only get what we are subconsciously thinking – if that is negative, (that’s what was passed on by the conscious mind as anger, hate, worry, fear, anxious thoughts, you name it), then yes, we over time program the subconscious mind negatively and it becomes SET that way.

      The good news Ronnie, we can reprogram it – but that will take effort and time. If only we knew before hand. ‘Prevention is better than cure’ 😉

  7. Ej, so insightful and uplifting. I have a friend that I know will love your site and I’m going to send them here. I myself will be back to pick up what you put down. Thanks for your time

    1. Hello Mike, thank you.
      Both you and your friends are most welcome anytime. Please leave a comment when & if you can. It confirms to me others are benefiting!
      That’s the beauty of the internet. The content site is always open! 🙂

    1. Hello Kurtis, thanks for your comment.
      From personal experience it has not been easy. It may be easier for some, but for the majority as you say, ‘change the way we think… can be very difficult to do’.

      If we carry on the way we are, it will only get harder. Change can be challenging, but by its nature, if we persist, things do get better, but not just by itself.

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